Tuesday, February 14, 2012

ALL ABOUT MANDAPS ~ WHAT'S BEING DONE IN 2012

I am gearing up for the wedding season. 
 I am booking fast and it is only February.
If you are looking for someone to help with your wedding call me at (503) 449-2057


What is being done in mandaps 2012?    EVERYTHING ! ~

You will read more about traditional mandaps in a section further into this blog.  My experience with the local mandap decorations is everything but traditional. In fact, if you are looking for the old style of mandap with fake flowers, I am not your gal.  First, each of my mandaps are custom designed for my brides.  No this does not increase the cost.  Here are some trends;

-  Using a lot of flowers on the front top and sides
-  sheer fabric.  Rather that using the glittery fabric I have seen in the past, this season its sheer all the way
-  as far as colors, about 40% of my brides want the traditional "Indian Red".  I say Indian red because I would call it burgundy.  60% of my brides are looking for different color pallet.  I work with my brides to achieve a cohesive color design between the wedding and reception or banquet.
-  crystals, statues and props
- Elephants - not real ones - elephant statues or made from flowers.  And they are lucky too! whit




FLOWERS, A must at every Indian Wedding

From the beginning till the end, flowers remain an integral part of the Indian wedding ceremonies and functions. And rightfully so, as flowers are the most beautiful, colourful, sacred and fragrant filled pieces which add that needed vibrancy for a any occasion with it’s mere presence and arrangement.


The Mandap: Your Center Stage

If you have been reading my blog, you will know that I do a great deal of research on the Internet regarding Indian wedding so I can provide you with ideas.  I recently came upon this article from Balamani Bride at http://www.balamanibride.com/cultural-traditions/the-mandap-your-center-stage/ .

I thought this article was great because i have had some Indian brides who do not know where the wedding tradition come from.  I hope this helps. 

South Asia, especially Indian subcontinent, is a region that is highly influenced by the cultural heritage. Festivities and various kinds of rituals are celebrated with utmost solemnity and earnestness. Marriage is one such ritual that is looked at as a “Unique” event.
One of the many vital aspects of Indian marriage is Mandap or a canopy (on a stage), on which the key marital ceremonies take place. Since Mandap is the center-stage that bears the holy matrimony, Mandap decorations have always held a very critical place in the marriage preparations. Recently, apart from mere religious aspects, mandaps are also decorated with keeping beauty and fashion in mind. A well-decorated Mandap not only adds an alluring appeal, but also has become a status symbol.
Keeping in mind the age-old Hindu conventions, an Indian marriage is ideally supposed to take place on the open ground; however, with modern times few traditions are molded into new ones. Even though a marriage takes place in a hall or any closed stadium, the form of the Mandap still remains the same.
A Mandap is a square shaped stage of approximately 10-15 feet sides, with four pillars at every angle. These pillars are decorated with flowers, exotic ribbons, green leaves, etc. The Mandap decorations can change from region to region, but it is mainly decided by whether the Mandap is erected in the open ground or the closed hall, and also whether the marriage is occurring during day or the night.
Red, silver, and gold are considered the colors of prosperity. Obviously, these colors are predominantly used in the decoration of the wedding Mandap. This preference of colors can also be noticed in the way the garlands are made, using white and red flowers, adorned with silver and golden threads. The ritual of “Jaimala”, in which the groom and bride put garlands around each others’ necks, is also held at the Mandap.
Mandap Decorations
In most cases, Mandap decorations are theme based. The whole Shamiyana (tent) decoration is carried out along with the Mandap decoration. These tents too are bright in color, and are beautified in such ways that charms one’s mind.
One of the most important and prominent factor of Mandap decoration is “lighting”. Different kinds of lanterns and candles are used to illuminate the Mandap. As a matter of fact, this “illumination of the Mandap” holds much more meaning than just source of light or decoration in Hindu tradition, as the light is perceived as illumination of mind, knowledge, and happiness. This is why “Yadnya-Vedi” (or simply sacred fire) is placed right in the middle of the Mandap. The wedding couple takes seven rounds around the Vedi and takes vows to be together forever, with ‘Fire’ as their witness. The Vedi is usually kept simple and without any intricate adornments, as the fire may spoil it during the course.
Wall hangings, curtains, chandeliers, and decorative artifacts are common pieces of wedding decorations. In few weddings, especially Marathi (Maharashtra) weddings, decorative carvings and structures of vegetables and other eatables is quite a common ritual, which is somewhat similar to ice-sculptures in the Christian weddings.
Western influence has begun to change some of the design elements in mandaps. Colors other than the conventional red, silver and gold are being used that reflect the couples style and taste all over the color spectrum. In some cases where open flame is not allowed by the venue, electric candles and lanterns can be used to ensure adequate illumination. The key point of your mandap design is to incorporate beautiful things that you want surrounding you while you are married.
Definitions
Mandap – The structure South Asian weddings take place under
Jaimala – The formal introduction of the bride and groom where garlands are exchanged.
Yadnya-Vedi – The structure that contains the sacred fire during the wedding ceremony
Shamiyana – Tent
Marathi – The language spoken in the state of Maharashtra.  It is the 4th most spoken language in India.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

What's In...Wedding.Mandaps in the Portland Area

What's in...in Mandaps

Its easier to answer this question by saying what is not cool in Mandaps.  Old Fashion looking Mandaps, Mom and Dads Mandap.  Our brides want a custom mandap,  A mandap designed for their wedding.  The do not want a out-of-box mandap decorated with old fake flowers......YUK.  I found this photo above while surfing the net tonight, its fun, its fresh and it does not look like your parents mandap.  Lets be unique and creative!


I HAVE SAID IT BEFORE.....

ELEPHANTS ARE ALWAYS A GOOD IDEA

I HAVE BEEN TOLD, ELEPHANTS ARE LUCKY.  I HAVE NOT MET A ELEPHANT I DID NOT LIKE.  WHY NOT CELEBRATE YOUR WEDDING WITH A ELEPHANT...OR A FEW.  IN PORTLAND, 'PACKY' AT THE PORTLAND ZOO IS THE ONLY ELEPHANT I AM AWARE OF ??  THE PORTLAND ZOO DOES NOT SHARE THEIR "PACKY" FOR INDIAN GROOMS TO RIDE TO THEIR WEDDING.  IN PORTLAND MUST GROOMS LOOK FOR A WHITE HORSE OR A HORSE CARRIAGE.   I HAVE GOOD NEWS....I HAVE FOUND A WHITE HORSE FOR INDIAN WEDDING.  YES, THE OWNER WILL ALSO COME ALONG TO LEAD THE HORSE IF YOU LIKE.  SO, IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A HORSE TO RIDE, CALL ME AT 503  449-2057 AND I WILL PUT YOU IN CONTACT WITH THE HORSE.

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I WOULD LIKE TO INTRODUCE, CATERING BEYOND BORDERS http://www.ethniccateringbeyondborders.com/

Beyond Borders

Catering Beyond Borders will be supply the food for my featured couple this season Susmita and James at their June 2nd wedding.  I was asked to attend the tasting...yum yum.  Call Rich he is very very very nice to work with and the food is great too.


TIP;  if you are planning a wedding, good vendors get booked up quickly.  Get your vendors booked and a deposit down.  You do not want the good ones to get away...........or is that just for fishing?

Wedding Cost in the Portland Area



I am asked, time after time - Why are Indian Weddings the only weddings I will coordinate or decorate?
Its because of the costs. - I understand how to control cost.
Its because I love the Indian people and culture.
Its because of the pressure on the family to put on impressive wedding and reception.
It is because the portland wedding industry believes that since the indian community have such large wedding, they have tons of money and the vendor will make a ton of money doing their wedding.

I throughly understand the Indian culture, expectations and pressure on the family when it comes to a wedding.

Portland wedding cost...Hummm -  I realize the following information will be educational for most, but for most indian brides, it could ruin your day.  The average cost of a wedding in the Portland area is just below $25,000.00.    As a indian bride you should expect your cost to be significantly higher.  A few factor go into this, number of days, number of events and number of guests.

That average Portland wedding cost is based on 130 to 150 guests.  The $25,00.00 gets you a average wedding.  A average wedding is not what the Indian culture and community expects.  If you are looking for a more custom, unique or designer event the the cost go up fast!!
This is where I ruin Indian brides day.  With twice to three times the amount of guests than the average PDX wedding,  your cost is sky rocketing.   I would estimate 3 to 4 times this amount. Now lets add the additional housing and food expenses for out of town guest.  Now I have ruined your month.  There is a lot of additional cost to a Indian Wedding, but there is not extra fluff money.  I do not make a lot of money, decoration Indian Wedding.  I do it because I love the culture.  Sorry to ruin other wedding vendors day.
  


My most favorite bride and groom ever...



This will bne a new addition to Portland Indian Wedding blog, I am going to feature a bride and groom.

On June 2, 2012 Susmita Pendurthi and James Murphy will be married with a view of Mt Hood at the Gorge Crest Winery.  James is local from Gresham and The lovely Susmita is from Missouri.    (yes James, you are adorable too!)


Susmita and James met while in the Peace Corp in Africa.  They are truely wonderful people, they both served two years helping others.  The couple make their home in Washington DC.  Over the next several months we will follow their wedding planning and wedding.  Gosh, I wish they would invite us on the honeymoon, they are going to the Greek Islands.

New Indian Wedding Trend – The Floral Chandelier

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The latest, hottest, trend in Indian wedding décor is a floral chandelier mounted inside your mandap, and I must admit I have LEAPED onto this bandwagon. Utterly romantic, and if you like that dramatic, flower and crystal thing, you are probably just as in love with this design as I am.
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LETS TALK ABOUT PHOTO'S


I was surfing the net, looking for some inspiration for the next item in this blog....table scape's.  I came across a photographer - (Benfield Phoyography) who has to be one of the best I have ever seen.  I invite you to look at his web page.  As a starting point the web address takes you to a Indian Wedding Welcome Party.  But please do not stop there, his web page will blow you away.  His photography is truly the best.  The only down side, he is located in Arkansas
http://benfieldphotography.blogspot.com/2010/08/indian-wedding-week-meeta-and-aatishs_24.html

Table scapes are lovely to look at...if they are done correctly
Table setting are called tables scapes in the industry.  By the mere name Table Scape you should invision your table setting as a indivual event.  The table scape will be one of the closest items to your guest and they are judging you based on what they see.  No Matter what your budget you can create a lovely Table Scape correctly.  I will give you a few tips and photo's


A good deal of thought should go into your centerpiece.  Scale is extremely important for visual impact.  A typical round banquet table is 60".  A bud vase with one flower is not going to work.  As a rule, the center portion of a 60" table after all the china, stemware, silver, salt and pepprt and butter is on the table is from 1' to 2" feet.

All the correct silverware, plates and stem ware for what you are serving,  If you are unsure discuss the appropriate options with your venue